complicated attraction

Why Do I Develop Crushes on People Who are Considered the Best and the Most Admired?

Why do some people become captivated by those whose approval seems especially valuable? This article explores how attraction can become intertwined with validation, self-worth, and the longing to finally feel chosen.

Why Am I So Attracted to People Who Have Something that I Seem to Lack in Myself?

Sometimes attraction isn’t only about another person—it’s about the qualities they seem to represent. This article explores why we become captivated by people who appear to possess something we’ve long wished we had, and how understanding this pattern can transform the way we experience attraction.

Why Do I Lose Interest When Things Start Getting Serious?

Do you lose interest just as a relationship starts to deepen? Sometimes fading attraction isn’t about incompatibility — it’s about how we respond to vulnerability.

Koby Frances PhD | Licensed Clinical Psychologist

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