Relationships can FEEL INTENSE, CONFUSING OR UNEXPECTEDLY FLAT.
You may feel drawn to someone and still question long-term compatibility.
You may see real potential yet struggle to feel a spark.
You may return to a familiar “type,” only to encounter the same frustrations.
Or you may still be discovering what kind of relationship feels steady and right for you.
When feelings don’t fully align — or aren’t yet clear — it’s natural to begin second-guessing yourself.
My work helps clarify what may be shaping your experience — whether that involves intensity, attachment patterns, uncertainty, or recurring dynamics — so decisions feel steadier over time.
You don’t have to navigate this alone. Clarity often begins by slowing down and looking carefully at these patterns with someone who understands the psychology of attraction and long-term fit.
HOW I WORK
Therapy offers a structured space to examine how attraction, self-esteem, emotional intensity, and earlier relationship experiences interact.
Rather than prescribing outcomes, we work toward understanding — so your responses become more intentional and less reactive.
At times, this includes distinguishing relational attraction from fantasy-driven arousal.
At other times, the focus may be clarifying romantic needs or exploring attachment patterns that become activated in close relationships.
The goal is clarity — not persuasion.
If you’re navigating uncertainty in dating or attraction, therapy can provide a steady place to think clearly and move forward with greater confidence.