In dating and relationships, chemistry and compatibility don’t always develop together.
You may feel intense chemistry that doesn’t translate into stability. You may recognize real long-term potential with someone — yet struggle to feel a strong or immediate spark. You may find yourself repeatedly drawn to a particular “type,” only to encounter the same frustrating patterns. Or you may question what your attraction actually means — and whether it’s guiding you wisely.
Over time, this tension can quietly erode confidence in your instincts, especially when you’re trying to build something steady.
You don’t have to sort through these patterns alone. Clarity often begins simply by having space to think them through with someone steady and experienced. Many clients feel relief in discovering a coherent framework for understanding why chemistry and compatibility can move at different speeds.
Therapy offers a structured, thoughtful space to slow down, examine what is shaping your attraction patterns, and build clarity that supports steadier, more intentional relationships.
How I Work
This process is collaborative and paced according to your readiness and goals.
Therapy involves both understanding patterns and actively working with them — building emotional tolerance, strengthening regulation skills, and developing more stable responses when familiar dynamics are triggered.
The aim is not to prescribe outcomes, but to help you approach dating and relationships with greater clarity, resilience, and steadiness.