Koby Frances, PhD
Do You Ever Find Yourself Wondering:
Why do relationships feel so hard?
Why can’t my dating life be more straightforward?
Why do I keep feeling stuck in the same patterns?
Over fifteen years of clinical practice, many clients have brought questions like these into my office. This makes sense. Dating and relationships can truly be challenging—and painful.
What surprised me over the years is how often these questions can be clarified when we focus on the very beginnings of attraction—the excitement that gets initially sparked simply by seeing or thinking about a specific person.
While at first glance this might not sound like the most logical place to start, clients are often surprised by just how much this helps to make sense of their experiences—and to guide their choices going forward.
Throughout this website you’ll find articles and practical resources to help you navigate a variety of common dating and relationship questions—and introduce you to a different way of understanding attraction and relationships.
If you’re curious to learn more, I invite you to explore one of the sections below or reach out to schedule a consultation.
Watch a 4 Minute Introduction
Why We So Often Misunderstand Our Attractions, By Koby Frances, PhD