Many thoughtful adults don’t struggle with the absence of desire — they struggle with understanding what their attraction means.
You may feel strong chemistry with someone who isn’t a good fit.
You may feel uncertain attraction toward someone who seems compatible.
You may find yourself preoccupied with a particular “type” while struggling to build connection in real life.
Or you may be asking what your recurring patterns of desire signify.
In my practice, I help individuals distinguish between fantasy-based arousal and relationally developed attraction. These systems operate through different psychological processes. When they are confused, dating frustration, obsessive infatuation, identity questions, and premature decisions often follow.
My work is especially suited for individuals navigating:
• Partner selection and compatibility concerns
• Attraction uncertainty while dating
• Recurrent infatuation patterns
• Comparisons between real partners and fantasy ideals
• Identity questions related to attraction
The aim is not to prescribe outcomes, but to provide clarity — so that relationship decisions feel grounded, intentional, and aligned.