Many thoughtful adults struggle not with the absence of desire, but with confusion about what their attraction means.
You may feel strong chemistry with someone who is not a good fit.
You may feel uncertain attraction toward someone who seems compatible.
You may find yourself preoccupied with a particular “type” while struggling to build connection in real life.
Or you may be navigating questions about what your patterns of desire signify.
In my practice, I specialize in helping individuals distinguish between fantasy-based arousal and relationally developed attraction. These systems operate differently — and misunderstanding them can lead to dating frustration, obsessive infatuation, identity confusion, and premature relationship decisions.
My work is especially suited for individuals navigating:
• Partner selection and compatibility concerns
• Attraction uncertainty while dating
• Recurrent infatuation patterns
• Comparison between real partners and fantasy ideals
• Identity questions related to attraction
The goal is not to prescribe outcomes, but to provide clarity so that decisions feel grounded and intentional.