Sexuality issues
If you or a loved one struggle with any of these difficulties, I can help give you the tools and insight you need to move forward with greater relief, clarity and control.
Sexual Identity Distress or Confusion: When men feel strong and powerful desires for other men, or when they are confused about their sexual identity and desired lifestyle, it can really be tough and it can really be lonely. Reach out to me! I have developed a unique, empirically-grounded and ethical approach that has helped hundreds of people gain clarity and relief right away. I now receive calls all over the world for these types of problems. I also teach and supervise other therapists about my approach and am developing school curriculum and therapist training programs to help spread clarity and relief for these issues. (Please see my videos and articles under Publications). If this is your story, I’m the person who need to get in touch with right away.
Please note. I am neither a “gay-affirming” therapist or a “conversion and/or reparative” therapist. I do not use behavioral therapy for these issues, nor do I try to “change, rewire or eliminate” people’s same-sex feelings.
Sexual-Religious Conflict: When parts of our sexual actions, fantasies or urges seem to conflict with other parts of our Self, family or culture, we may need professional input to get quick clarity and relief from the anxiety, depression and isolation that this can cause.
Distress around Specific Sexual Fantasies or Urges: If you have recurring fantasies and urges involving the same-gender, opposite-gender, specific body parts or unusual objects and situations, I can immediately help you gain more understanding and control over these feelings.
Sex/Porn/Love Addictions: People with sex-addictions often have questions: “Why is this happening?”. “How do I finally put a stop to this in a way that doesn’t just involve using my sheer will-power?” “What explains those times where I start to get out of control?” I can truly give you the answers that you are looking for.