What Kind of Person Captivates You?
Discover the four attraction patterns that underlie many confusing dating and relationship experiences.
We often assume we're simply attracted to people.
But many of us become captivated by particular qualities long before we truly know another person.
Recognizing which qualities consistently capture your attention is often the first step toward understanding why certain attractions feel so immediate, powerful, and difficult to let go of.
Which of these best describes your experience?
The White Knight
Rescue Attraction
Quickly drawn toward people who seem wounded, emotionally overwhelmed, or in need of rescuing.
"I somehow feel cared for when I care for others."
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You-Complete-Me
Completion Attraction
Quickly drawn toward people who seem to possess qualities that feel like missing pieces of yourself.
"If this person likes me, maybe I’ll start to feel better about myself."
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The Golden Ticket
Affirmation Attraction
Quickly drawn toward people who seem extraordinary, widely admired, or just out of reach.
"If I could win someone like them, maybe I'd finally see myself differently."
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The Other Side
Possibility Attraction