Attraction Questions & Resources
Attraction can be confusing. You may wonder why you are drawn to certain people, why attraction grows or fades, why chemistry and compatibility do not always align, or what your attractions mean for your relationships and identity.
Explore the questions organized by topic below, or begin by discovering the four common attraction patterns that can make dating and relationships feel especially confusing.
PORNOGRAPHY & COMPULSIVE SEXUAL BEHAVIOR
The Hidden Struggle Behind Porn Use
SAME-SEX ATTRACTION & IDENTITY QUESTIONS
If I Experience Same-Sex Attraction, Can I Still Be Straight?
Why Don't I Look at Attractive Women Like Other Men?
How Do I Know If I’m Gay?
Why Certain Identity Labels Can Feel So Relieving
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Practical Guides on Same-Sex Attraction & Sexual Identity
Below are some practical resources for individuals, parents, therapists, rabbis, educators, mentors, and pastors seeking a broader understanding of same-sex attraction, and sexual identity.
Brief answers to common questions about attraction, dating, same-sex attraction, and sexual identity.
A practical guide for responding thoughtfully to questions about sexual identity.
A practical guide to understanding same-sex attraction from a broader developmental and relational perspective.