About Dr. Koby Frances

I am a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in attraction psychology, relational decision-making, and trauma-informed therapy.

Over the years, I have worked extensively with individuals navigating confusion about desire — particularly when intense chemistry, recurring patterns, or fantasy-based arousal conflict with long-term compatibility. Through this work, I developed a clinical framework distinguishing between fantasy-based activation and relationally developed attraction.

My approach integrates psychodynamic understanding, attachment theory, structured psychoeducation, and Sensorimotor Psychotherapy. I also have experience working with compulsive sexual behaviors and pornography-related patterns, helping clients understand the mechanisms behind these patterns without collapsing them into fixed identity conclusions.

I work primarily with thoughtful adults seeking clarity, stability, and grounded decision-making in their relationships.