Should our strongest attractions be trusted and followed?
Whether you find yourself powerfully drawn to familiar types of people, struggling with infatuation or anxious longing, losing interest once things get serious, or repeatedly finding yourself in the same relationship dynamics—certain kinds of attraction can leave us feeling confused, frustrated, and unsure what to trust.
But here's what often surprises—and relieves—people:
Our strongest attractions often tell us less about the people we're drawn to than about the deeper emotional needs and longings we've been carrying for years.
Once people begin understanding these attractions differently, they no longer automatically assume that every powerful feeling should be trusted or followed. Instead, they begin asking a different question:
"What kind of attraction is this?"
